Forcing login to "Lotus Web Conferencing"

Talking about the web version of Sametime.  The part where you set up 
meetings with Audio/Visual, whiteboard, etc.

I have the home url in the server doc set to 
/stcenter.nsf?OpenDatabase&login and that works pretty good.  However, if 
I send someone a URL for an active meeting, such as 
http://sametime01.dekko.com/stconf.nsf/meeting/5c870ff60527a14405256f6c005c0b1e
, which is created when you are on the screen waiting for the meeting to 
create,
then they don't get prompted for login and doesn't load right.  However if 
I go to the list of active meetings and right click on a hot spot for a 
meeting, the properties for that hotspot will show:
http://sametime01.dekko.com/stconf.nsf/meeting/5C870FF60527A14405256F6C005C0B1E?opendocument&login

1 - IBM/Lotus should change the URL generated on the screen suggesting you 
send that URL to people to include the dang ?opendocument&login
2 - IBM/Lotus should send a URL that would work for the 'external' 
servers.  For example, if I create a meeting on sametime01.dekko.com in 
our intranet and invite sametime03.dekko.com in our dmz then instead of 
displaying the url 
http://sametime01.dekko.com/stconf.nsf/meeting/5C870FF60527A14405256F6C005C0B1E 
for internal users and only http://sametime03.dekko.com for external 
users, they should show an appropriate url routing off of 
sametime03.dekko.com for external users.  The problem is that, until they 
get step 1 fixed and append the login, this works better.
3 - If my users use the default suggested internal url of 
http://sametime01.dekko.com/stconf.nsf/meeting/5C870FF60527A14405256F6C005C0B1E,
 
then how do I get the web to automatically force login?

Rob Berendt
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Group Dekko Services, LLC
Dept 01.073
PO Box 2000
Dock 108
6928N 400E
Kendallville, IN 46755
http://www.dekko.com